Do I have ADHD?
If you keep losing track of time, putting things off, or leaving things half done, even when they matter to you, it makes sense to ask. Lots of people don't find out they have ADHD until they're adults. Below, you'll find what ADHD is, how it can show up in adults, and how to find out for sure.
An accurate diagnosis can only be made through clinical evaluation.
What is ADHD?
When you hear about ADHD, you might picture a young boy who can't sit still in class and is always bouncing off the walls.
That's one way ADHD can show up. A lot of the time, though, it happens on the inside, where other people can't see it. It can look like a mind that won't slow down, a hard time getting started on things, or big feelings that take a long time to settle.
ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder. That means it comes from how your brain grows and works. It affects how well you can steer your attention, your energy, your feelings, and your actions. It starts in childhood and often lasts into adulthood.
ADHD looks different from one person to the next. It can change for the same person, too. It might shift as you get older, from month to month, or even over the course of a day.
What are the signs of ADHD in adults?
ADHD looks different for everyone. Having a few of these doesn't mean you have ADHD. What matters is how often they happen and how much they get in your way.
Does this sound like you?
Our free assessment uses the Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale, an 18-question screener developed with the World Health Organization. When you finish, we'll email you a copy of your score to keep. It's a good first step before you talk to a doctor.
An accurate diagnosis can only be made through clinical evaluation.
How getting an ADHD diagnosis works as an adult
Only a trained clinician can tell you if you have ADHD. That could be your family doctor, a psychiatrist, a psychologist, or another mental health professional, depending on where you live.
Online quizzes can't diagnose ADHD, and that includes ours. But they can help you figure out if it's worth pursuing an official diagnosis.
What your clinician will look for
Your clinician will look at the ways ADHD might be making your life harder. That might include:
how often you have trouble with focus, restlessness, or acting on impulse
whether some of this started when you were a kid, before age 12
whether it shows up in more than one part of your life, like at work and at home
whether it's been going on for at least 6 months
whether something else, like anxiety, depression, or poor sleep, could explain it better
What happens at your appointment
You talk about your life.
Your clinician will ask about your life now and when you were a kid. If you have old report cards, bring them.
You may fill out questionnaires.
They ask about your habits and how often certain things happen.
Someone close to you may weigh in.
Your clinician may ask a parent, partner, or friend what they've noticed.
ADHD and anxiety often show up together. In a large US study from the early 2000s, almost half of adults with ADHD also had an anxiety disorder [3]. You can have both, and your clinician can check for both.
Guides to getting diagnosed
Getting diagnosed in the US
How to get an adult ADHD assessment, step by step.
Getting diagnosed in Canada
How to get an adult ADHD diagnosis, step by step.
Online diagnosis services
Five online services that can diagnose ADHD, side by side.
Self-diagnosis
The pros and cons of figuring it out on your own.
Why didn't anyone tell me this was ADHD?
For a long time, ADHD was pictured as a boy who can't sit still. People who didn't fit that picture often got missed. If you see yourself in one of these, it may help explain why no one asked about ADHD sooner.
ADHD in girls and women often gets missed or mistaken for something else
In one study from Sweden, girls and women got their first ADHD diagnosis about 4 years later than boys and men. On average, that was around age 24 for females and around age 20 for males [4].
It can look quieter
Girls with ADHD are often more dreamy than hyper, which is easy to miss. In a study of Swedish twins, girls needed more signs of being hyper or acting out than boys did before they got diagnosed [18].
It can get called anxiety or depression first
In a study from Wales, girls and women were more likely than boys and men to be diagnosed with anxiety or depression before anyone found their ADHD [5].
It can change with your hormones
In a study from Iceland, about half of women who said they had ADHD had strong symptoms around menopause. For other women, it was about 3 in 10 [19].
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People of color are less likely to get diagnosed, even with the same signs
In 2022, about 11 in 100 White children in the US had an ADHD diagnosis. For Asian American children, it was about 3 or 4 in 100 [6].
The same signs can get a different answer
In a study in 3 US cities, Black and Latino kids were less likely than White kids with the same signs to be diagnosed or treated [20].
ADHD can get called bad behavior
In a large study of US hospital patients, Black, Hispanic, Asian, and Native American kids were more likely than White kids to get a behavior disorder diagnosis [21].
Stigma and trust get in the way
On our blog, people of color with ADHD talk about stigma, not trusting the medical system, and having a hard time finding doctors who understand their culture.
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Lots of people don't find out until they're adults
In one large US study, only about 1 in 10 adults with ADHD had been treated for it in the past year. Many had been treated for other problems instead [3].
The old picture left people out
Many adults grew up when ADHD was seen as a boy thing. Girls, women, and people of color often got missed, so many of them find out as adults.
Structure can hide it
At home or in school, other people's rules and schedules can help you keep up. ADHD often shows up more when that structure goes away, like when you move out or start a new job.
It's not too late to find out
Most kids with ADHD don't grow out of it. In a US study that followed kids with ADHD, only about 9 in 100 had fully grown out of it by about age 25 [14].
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Doing well doesn't mean you don't have ADHD
"I got good grades only because I was smart, not because I learned. Once I got to college I struggled so much. I wasn't diagnosed until 14 years later after I had my first kid."
Shared anonymously on the Shimmer blog
Structure and interest can carry you
Clear schedules, deadlines, and subjects you love can help you keep up for years. When life gets less structured, like in college or a new job, ADHD can show up more.
Hiding it takes a lot out of you
Many people cover up their ADHD by working extra hard or trying to be perfect. Experts call this masking [22]. It can work for a while, but it wears you out.
It's still a disability
Doing well at the things school and work measure doesn't make ADHD go away. In one study, adults with ADHD and a high IQ still had more trouble at work, at home, and on the road than other adults with a high IQ [8].
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How ADHD can affect your work, health, and safety
of work lost each year
This is the average for a worker with ADHD. It counts days off and days when it was harder to get work done [9].
more likely to get hurt in an accident
People with ADHD get hurt in accidents more often than people without ADHD, across 32 studies of more than 4 million people [9].
more likely to be in a car crash
Drivers with ADHD get in more crashes than other drivers, even when they drive the same number of miles [9].
shorter life expectancy
According to one UK study, adults with ADHD were expected to live 7–9 fewer years than adults without it. The study only counted people who had a diagnosis [10].
According to one study from Sweden, people with ADHD who started taking ADHD medication were about 20% less likely to die in the next 2 years than people with ADHD who didn't [11]. If you think medication could help you, talk with a doctor.
If you're having thoughts of suicide, you can call or text 988 any time, in the US or Canada.
What helps with ADHD?
If life with ADHD has felt hard, there's a reason, and there are ways to get help. Most people use a mix of these.
Medication
The most studied treatment for ADHD. A doctor can tell you if it's a good fit for you.
Therapy
A therapist can help with the thoughts, habits, and feelings that come with ADHD. One common kind is cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT.
Coaching
A coach helps with daily life, like planning, routines, and following through on what matters to you.
Learning about ADHD
Knowing how ADHD works for you makes it easier to figure out what helps.
Why having words for your ADHD matters
Learning the words for what you go through can change how you see yourself. You might have spent years telling yourself you're lazy or forgetful, or that something is wrong with you. When you learn about ADHD, you can see that none of it was your fault. Each new word you learn, like rejection sensitivity, helps you understand yourself a little better. And once you understand something, you can start to change it. Just by reading this page, you've already taken the first step.
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What is ADHD coaching?
ADHD coaching is support for the everyday parts of life that ADHD makes harder. You work one on one with a coach who is trained in ADHD. Together, you set your goals, try new ways of doing things each week, and look at what worked. It works on its own or alongside medication, and you don't need a diagnosis to start.
A coach can help you with:
How does ADHD coaching help?
With ADHD, knowing what to do and getting it done can feel far apart. A coach helps you close that gap, one week at a time.
Someone in your corner every week
You meet with your coach for 30 minutes each week, and you can message them between sessions.
A plan built around you
Your coach helps you pick your own goals and break them into steps you can actually take.
Help that changes with you
Each week you try something, then talk through what worked. Your plan changes when your life does.
Support between sessions
You also get daily body doubling sessions, weekly workshops, and tools for the days in between.
of coaches who apply get hired
We make finding a good coach easy
We do all the vetting for you, so you get a coach who is certified and trained in ADHD. We only hire the top 3.7% of coaches who apply.
More ways to learn about ADHD
The Modern ADHD Guide
Short pages on ADHD words like working memory, hyperfocus, and burnout.
Common questions about ADHD
Simply put, no, ADHD is not overdiagnosed. Diagnoses have gone up in the last few decades. But studies over 30 years find that the share of kids and teens who actually have ADHD hasn't gone up [9]. What changed is our ability to spot it. The rise in diagnoses is largely due to better science, better diagnosis, and better awareness. We're getting better at noticing ADHD in all its forms and in all kinds of people.
For adults, the research points the other way. In one large US health system, kids aged 5 to 11 were 3 to 4 times as likely as adults to have a diagnosis [7]. And among adults 50 and older, about 2 in 100 show signs of ADHD, but only about 2 in 1,000 have a diagnosis [2]. If you think you might have ADHD, it's a fair question to bring to a clinician.
Lots of adults with ADHD were called lazy growing up, and some still say it to themselves. With ADHD, you can really care about something and still have a hard time starting it or finishing it. ADHD is a health condition. It mostly runs in families, and studies of twins find it's about 74% genetic [13]. In studies of adults, ADHD medication helped with symptoms more than a fake pill did [9].
To sort this out for yourself, look back over your whole life. Did some of this start when you were a kid? Does it show up in more than one place, like at work and at home? Does it happen even with things you care about? A clinician will ask about things like this too. Our free assessment can help you decide if it's worth talking to one.
Most don't. In a US study that followed kids with ADHD for 16 years, only about 9 in 100 had fully grown out of it by about age 25. For about 2 in 3, the signs came and went over the years [14].
ADHD also tends to change as you get older. Many people become less hyper, but the trouble with attention stays [9]. So you might look calmer than you did as a kid and still have ADHD. And if you had some easier years and then things got hard again, that pattern showed up a lot in this study too.
Boys do get diagnosed more, especially as kids. In a study of health records in Wales, boys were diagnosed about 5 times as often as girls in childhood. Among people diagnosed after 18, it was closer to 2 to 1 [5]. That gap shrinks because many girls and women don't find out until later in life.
One reason is that ADHD can look quieter in girls, so it's easy to miss. Girls and women are also more likely to be told they have anxiety or depression before anyone finds their ADHD [5]. If that sounds familiar, our page on ADHD in women goes deeper.
No. ADHD starts in childhood, but lots of people don't find out until much later. Most adults 50 and older who show signs of ADHD have never been diagnosed [2]. Yara, one of Shimmer's members, was diagnosed at 52.
Since ADHD starts when you're young, a clinician will ask what you were like as a kid. Many adults have a hard time remembering that far back, so clinicians often look for other clues. Old report cards can help, and so can a parent or other family member who knew you then.
No. A Scottish doctor described people who couldn't keep their attention on one thing in 1798. By 1902, a British doctor was writing about children who had trouble paying attention and controlling what they did. In 1937, a doctor reported that a medicine helped kids' behavior and schoolwork [15].
It can seem new because the name has changed a lot. Over the years, doctors called it things like minimal brain dysfunction and attention deficit disorder, and the name ADHD only goes back to 1987 [15]. More adults are also finding out they have it now. In one large US health system, the share of adults with a diagnosis more than doubled from 2007 to 2016 [7].
Research doesn't point to any of these as the cause. ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder [1]. That means it comes from how your brain grows and develops, starting when you're young. It isn't something you catch. It also runs in families, mostly through genes [13], and other things can add to the risk, like being born very early [9].
In 23 studies that tested sugar on kids, it didn't change how they behaved or paid attention [16]. Teens who used screens a lot had slightly more ADHD signs later, but researchers can't tell yet which one causes the other [17]. The National Institute of Mental Health has said there's little compelling evidence that ADHD can come purely from social factors or how you were raised [12]. Things around you can make ADHD harder to live with, but they don't seem to cause it by themselves [12].
So if you've wondered whether you or your parents did something to cause this, the research mostly points to genes and how the brain develops.
ADD is the old name. It became the official name in 1980 and was changed to ADHD in 1987 [15]. If a doctor told you years ago that you had ADD, the name today would be ADHD.
The name can be confusing because the H stands for hyperactivity. You can have ADHD without being hyper at all. Some people mostly have trouble with attention, and that's still called ADHD. When people say ADD today, that's usually what they mean.
No. Only a trained clinician can diagnose ADHD. A screener like our free assessment can help you decide if it's worth pursuing an official diagnosis. Ours uses the World Health Organization's adult ADHD screener, which asks 18 questions about how often certain things happen to you.
Your score can't tell you for sure either way. A high score can come from other things, like anxiety, depression, or poor sleep. A low score doesn't rule ADHD out, since screeners can miss people who have it. So use your score as a starting point. We'll email you a copy, and you can bring it to your appointment.
Yes. Good grades or a good job don't rule out ADHD. It shows up in people at every IQ level, and it can still get in the way for people who are very smart [9]. Many people cover up their ADHD by working extra hard or trying to be perfect [22]. That can work for a while, but it wears you out.
So when you talk to a clinician, tell them how things look from the outside and what it takes you to keep them that way. They'll look at how much ADHD is getting in the way of your life.
No. At Shimmer, you don't need a diagnosis to work with a coach. Whether you've been diagnosed, think you might have ADHD, or are still figuring it out, you're welcome.
Coaching is about your everyday life, like managing your time, putting things off, and getting organized. You and your coach set goals, try something new each week, and look at what worked. A coach can't diagnose you, so if you want an official answer, you'll still need a clinician. You can do both at once, or start with one and add the other later.
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